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Attachment Style

Discover your attachment style — secure, anxious, avoidant or disorganised — and understand how it shapes every close relationship you have.

Before you begin
  • Read each question carefully and answer honestly
  • Take your time — accuracy matters more than speed
  • Think about how you generally feel and behave in close relationships (romantic or otherwise). Rate how much each statement describes you.
⏰ 7 minutes 📋 18 questions 🔒 Private & anonymous
Question 1 of 18
I worry that my partner or close friends don't really love me or value me
Question 2 of 18
I need a lot of reassurance from the people I am close to
Question 3 of 18
I find that others are reluctant to get as close as I would like
Question 4 of 18
I worry a lot about my relationships
Question 5 of 18
When I am not with someone I care about I feel anxious
Question 6 of 18
I get frustrated when people I care about are not available when I need them
Question 7 of 18
I prefer not to share my feelings with others
Question 8 of 18
I find it difficult to depend on other people
Question 9 of 18
I am not comfortable opening up to others
Question 10 of 18
I prefer to keep to myself rather than rely on close relationships
Question 11 of 18
It is important to me to feel independent and self-sufficient
Question 12 of 18
I feel uncomfortable when people get emotionally close to me
Question 13 of 18
I find it easy to depend on others
Question 14 of 18
I am comfortable sharing my thoughts and feelings with people I care about
Question 15 of 18
I feel confident that my relationships are secure
Question 16 of 18
I rarely worry about being abandoned or rejected
Question 17 of 18
I find it easy to trust people I am close to
Question 18 of 18
When I am upset, I turn to the people I care about for comfort

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